It’s Finally Not So Hot!

Fall is…on its way.  Here in Florida, it definitely isn’t here yet but it’s not stifling anymore, so that’s good.  I cannot wait for my lesson tomorrow evening!  One, it won’t be a million degrees out and two, I GET TO RIDE!  Yay!

I had a lesson two weeks ago and it was great, as always.  We continued the same work from the previous two lessons and I can really feel it starting to come together.  It’s so awesome being able to feel myself get over this slump I was in for half the summer.  It was as though I hit a plateau with my progress – and that’s probably exactly what happened.  I know that’s normal but man, it can get discouraging at times.  But I am making progress again and it feels super!

I can’t wait to try out everything we tried last week and to tweak it even more.  So far I haven’t had too many negative consequences from only riding every 2-3 weeks and hopefully my luck continues in that.  I have been constantly day-dreaming about next summer when I can again half-lease Sox (or someone else possibly) and ride 3-4 times a week.  I miss it so much!

I know I have found my passion finally and it is so frustrating since I can’t really explore it as much as I would like.  It’s not just that I don’t have very much time to spend at the barn, but also finances keep me from fully embracing this hobby, at least at this point in my life.  Maybe one day I will be able to do more — that is what I will be working towards at least.

Well, I will try to report back after my ride tomorrow evening!


Two Wonderful Rides in One Week

This is going to be a short post since I’m doing it from my phone.

I got back from my trip for my grandmother’s funeral and then 2days later turned around and went on our planned trip for the summer.  Got back and it was time for work…so it’s been a week of workshops and getting class ready for the start of the semester on Monday.

A girl from the barn, L, invited me to go riding with her Monday night and I went. I had a fabulous ride on Sox. Everything was perfect.  Tonight we went again and the ride on Sox was good, but not like Monday. Then we sat around the barn and had a few beers and played with the dogs while shooting the shit. It was a fun night.

I will be back more regularly again and will have more to say about this week’s ride as well as post something for this week’s photo challenge. 🙂

Happy riding !!!

Jumping & Going Fast! (and photo challenge)

I am going to start with this week’s photo challenge “Summer Lovin“.  Here is my entry this week:

He doesn't actively ride anymore, but is considering getting back into it once it cools off again, but here is my son riding Sox.

Here is my son (whom I love SO MUCH) riding Sox. He doesn’t actively ride anymore, but is considering getting back into it once it gets cold again. Since it’s Florida, that’s not likely to happen for a while. 😉

The instructions tell me to show you something I love.  Well, I love a lot of things.  I love my son, my husband, my dogs, cats, parents, sisters, nephews, my job…you get the idea.  I decided that since this blog is about riding, I may as well try to find a picture that captures what I love in relation to something related to horses.    This is one of my favorite pictures of my son riding Sox.  He’s actually smiling and laughing and enjoying himself here (of course, Sox doesn’t look nearly as enthusiastic, but he never really does).  It also was during the time that we were still taking lessons together.  I think his lesson was over.  He was really starting to make some progress in his posting trot that day and was excited.  It’s really hot here in FL and my son is not the most athletically inclined, so when he said he didn’t want to ride anymore and was having less & less fun because of the heat –   I didn’t want to force him, so I let him stop riding.  He didn’t love it like I do and that’s ok.  He still loves going to the barn, and that’s good enough for me.  ❤




Ok.  So onto the horsey stuff.  I had a lesson on Wednesday and worked as my friend’s groom on Thursday.  Sox was on fire Wednesday – full of GO GO GO!!!  He wanted to canter everywhere and do it FAST.  So, I worked a lot on my half-halts. Turns out, I need more work on that.  Wednesday was a jumping day!  I cantered the jumps!  On purpose.  Well, the first time not so much, but after that – totally. I told my friend that I had accidentally cantered up to the jumps, but not intentionally, so she decided we should do just that.  And what was cool to me was the fact that it meant I had to canter a smallish circle to get to the jump, but I wasn’t nervous!  My small circles were better than my attempt around the whole arena earlier in the lesson!

Speaking of cantering around the arena – I had a much better time on what is usually my bad side today!  I almost couldn’t get it at all on my “good” side!  Going to the left, I am usually able to pick it right up even though that is Sox’s bad side, but not Wedneday.  Nope.  I’d get a few strides and then he’d stop.  Because I was off-balance or pinching.  Or especially yanking on his face.  I could not get my arms in sync with the horse’s motion.  But to the right?  That’s Sox’s good side, so as long as I ask correctly, he can pick it up – but usually I can’t sit right when I ask but this day, I was on fire!  I made it all the way around on my first try!  And it felt good.  I had a good transition back down to trot and the one time he started to slow down like he was going to stop, I was able to apply a little leg and keep him going!

Now, if I could only duplicate that at will more often!!  Anyway, my small circles up to the jumps really weren’t scary at all.  I was nervous in my mind, but not too bad (surprisingly). And all I had to do was think about transitioning to canter and Sox was there already.  During the jump,  I was having a lot of trouble getting/keeping my hands up high enough on Sox’s neck.  I kept wanting to bury them in the saddle.  He really stretches that long neck out over the jump and I know I caught him in the mouth a few times.  I know what happens (why I get nervous – burying my hands is a sign of nervousness in me) – he picks up speed getting to the jump.  He’s excited and I am not confident in my ability to slow him down without getting in his way (and subsequently killing us or something horrible).  But we worked on slowing him down, at least leading UP to the jump, because as soon as we landed on the other side, it was like Sox was reliving his cross-country days and was galloping to the next jump.  Oh. My. Goodness. SO. FAST.  lol.  🙂   It would feel completely exhilarating for a few seconds and then my worrying conscience would kick and say something to freak me out like “Aren’t we going a little fast ??”  and then I would wreck it.  But feeling the wind in my face & hearing it whip by, was pretty cool.  One day, I will get to fully enjoy that.

I did finally get him to stop running up to the jump and finally we were able to get a more steady, even pace up to the jump.  The last 3 jumps were much more controlled leading up to the jump and the last jump was actually pretty well controlled after the landing.  He was picking up speed, but I was able to give him a small “woah” and half-halt and I let him canter a few strides and then asked for the trot and then actually let him have time to make the transition.  I also made sure to better follow his movements after the jump.  The first bunch of times, I was just stressing out because we were going so fast.  I wasn’t telling him to slow down, but I was resisting all of his movement by tensing up.  Once I was able to tell my stupid body to stop doing that and actually land the jump and intentionally canter away, things got easier.

I know I need to challenge myself like that more often.  It feels SO GREAT when I do and we have even the tiniest bit of success.  I also know that since the last time I fell off Sox, I have been more reluctant to challenge myself.  Because I was challenging myself that day.  I have really wimped out lately in terms of how much and how hard I will work on the canter when I am riding on my own.  I was doing really, really well with cantering a lot on my own, until I fell.  I know that the riding I am doing is still helping and is making a difference, but I know I can do more.  I finally realized how little I am challenging myself on my own after this week’s lesson.  I don’t mean I should start jumping on my own or anything, but I really need to suck it up and go for that canter.  I need to master this.  Well, it would take thousands of rides to technically “master” it, but I need to get my canter ability up a few notches to where I’m no longer receiving instructions on how to do it, but rather I want to be at the level where I receive instruction on ways to make it better.

Grooming was fun and I am looking forward to next week’s lesson & groom session.  The plan is to push myself a little bit more on my own this week.  I only have 2 more weeks left in my summer.  I can’t believe it is almost over.  I will keep riding and posting, but probably less frequently.


Happy Riding!

My Trainer is Having a Baby Soon!!

Since my trainer is about to have her baby any time in the next two weeks, this past Wednesday was my last lesson with her for a bit.  Last week was supposed to be the last lesson, but she felt good enough to work this week too, plus she wanted to end with a little jumping.  Unfortunately, I didn’t make it out to the barn Monday or Tuesday, so the first time I rode this week was during my lesson.  I got there a little early and was able to start warming Sox up before she finished with the lesson before.  There was no one training just after me though, so we were in no hurries.

Sox was pretty alert and active that day, so that was a bonus.  Sometimes he can be a little slow to get started, as though he thinks I don’t really mean it – it’s all a big joke and I’m going to let him go back to munching & napping in his stall.  My trainer had us progress pretty quickly through the things we’ve been working on and I needed minimal correction, which was nice.  I felt good in the saddle that day, even though my RA was flaring up in my shoulder, it wasn’t interfering or making me stiff.  We worked on getting my left leg back.  My right leg goes to the correct position, but my left leg is apparently too far in front.  When she gets me straight and aligned – I feel like I am tilted backwards and that I’m practically kneeling on my left knee, which also feels like it’s a good several inches behind my other leg.  Obviously, my natural “balance” was way out of balance!!

She had me go around and around in two-point and that really helped get my leg corrected.  We did some figure-8’s over some trot poles laid out between some jumps.  That’s been our go-to work out lately when I ride on my own, so I was doing those much better than the last time my trainer had us do that exercise.  (Last time, we were all over the place, I had trouble steering, and was really perch-y going over the poles).  Then she had me do some canter work.  She had me canter-depart from the straightaways a few times, rather than the corners like Sox expects.   I felt much more balanced in the canter and was able to keep it going a bit longer than normal.  My left hand/arm has a tendency to get stiff and not stay with the motion of the horse, so she had me hold onto the martingale with my left hand – which felt weird but seemed to work!    I was also riding for the 2nd time with my gloves on, but by this part of the lesson they were feeling less awkward finally.

We finished up with a small jump where the trot poles were – so same exercise, but with a small cross rail.  I did ok.  She said I did ok, but I felt like I was having a little trouble following the horse’s motion.  She did have to tell me to place my hands higher on his neck and really stretch, but to remember that my hips need to do the work and open/close.  I either didn’t bend enough or threw myself forward.  It’s a little ridiculous how much I can’t get my body to listen, lol.  I have been working on hip stretches a lot and she did mention that I seem much less stiff in my hips, so those stretches are helping, yay!!

I am pretty bummed I don’t get to work with my trainer for a while after this, but I am excited she’s having a baby.  I’ll still see her – she lives on property and our kids play whenever I ride.


Friday, July 11, 2014

My sister decided to come out to the barn today while I rode.  My son went to the house and played video games with my trainer’s kids.   It was nice having my sister there since NO ONE else came out to ride this morning and I don’t like being alone out there.  She also was able to video record me so I can watch myself (eww) and see what I’m doing right & wrong.   It was really humid out there today, so it got really hot really quickly today, so I ended up only riding about 40-45 minutes, which is still a good ride.

We did a little of everything I worked on Wednesday, minus the small jumps.  Having my sister there was also nice because I was able to have her set up a few extra trot poles.  😉  The ride today was nice and I had a good time.   Sox was actually affectionate when I was done today and rubbed his head all over me.  OF course, it’s because his face was all itchy, but I’ll take what i can get.  😉

I did work out a barter with my friend that used to be my trainer.  She rides horses for my trainer while she can’t ride due to her pregnancy.  My trainer would act as the groom and my friend did the riding, but now my trainer can’t groom anymore, so my friend needs a groom once a week.  SOooo, I volunteered to do the work in exchange for a lesson on another day.  She knows I have no idea what all I will be doing but she is confident I can handle it.  🙂  And I get a free lesson, which saves me some money, so that’s good.  I have nothing really to offer my trainer for a deal like that, so this is cool.  Plus, I feel like I will learn something.  I going to try and get them to show me how to lunge the Sox this week or next though.  I really ought to know how.


ANyway, that’s all for now.  I get to play groom on Tuesday and get my free lesson on Wednesday.  Woot.  😉  Happy riding!!

Happy 4th of July!

Happy 4th!  I hope your holiday weekend is off to a good start!  My son and I started our weekend off with a little horseback riding.  He hasn’t ridden since April, but told me yesterday that he would like to, so I had him squeeze into his old boots, grab his helmut and hop on Sox.  I handwalked them around the arena a few times.  My son very much enjoyed it.  He said that maybe when it’s not so hot out, he may start riding lessons again.  We’ll see, lol. 

I used Sox’s walk around the arena as his warm up and got right to work when I got on.  I was trying out a pair of gloves today since I keep getting a blister on my left ring finger.  They felt super awkward.  Luckily, the rest of me didn’t feel awkward up there so I was able to adjust.  They weren’t great and I did end up taking them off for the last little bit of my ride.

For once I wasn’t feeling all over the place for my ride.  I mean, sure, there was plenty I could have been doing better, but I was doing better than normal for me, and the best that I could at the time.  I was able to pick up a nice forward trot after a little fuss from Sox.  I could feel the difference in my legs when they weren’t correct – I was doing much better at keeping the bend in my knee (and my elbows) and posting with my hips rather than trying to stand up in the stirrups.  Tuesday I couldn’t stop perching and standing on my toes in the stirrups, but my Wednesday lesson must have fixed that because I wasn’t doing that today.  Thank goodness.

I went over the trot pole exercise we did at the last two lessons and he was really good for it after the first pass where he stopped in the middle of the poles.  Last week he cantered through them, today he halts.  C’mon Sox, lol.  We picked it up and got it going right and I think I may have even dropped into a mostly correct two-point for at least half the passes we made today.  I was also paying a lot more attention to where we were in relation to the rail or our path around things today, as Sox has a tendency to fall to the inside if I am not on top of things.  We stayed to the outside for our whole ride today! Yay!!  Granted, our ride wasn’t super long, but hey – I’ll take all the victories I can get. 

I worked on a little itty bit of sitting trot today.  It was ok, but I kept letting that leg creep up and I’d end up pointing my toes…I don’t know where that reaction came from, but I kept finding my foot ALL the way in the stirrup, all the way to the heel of my boot.  Not ok.  So I spent a lot of my time trying to fix that while sitting the trot.  I probably should have just dropped the stirrups, but I can’t tell that I am moving my legs without the stirrups as well when I don’t have eyes on the ground to tell me. 

I did a tiny bit of canter work today as well.  Sox didn’t want to pick up a good canter today to start with.  I’m sure my aids were wonky and I was unbalanced or something, but regardless, he ran out the first few times so I brought him back down to a trot, which he tried to turn into a halt, and we tried again.  Then when he finally did start cantering, it was very choppy and not flow-y at all.  He did it like that the first couple times in each direction, but on about the third try we got it together.  I am sticking to cantering the straightaways and trotting the corners until I am better at telling whether I am on the correct lead by myself.  I’ll get there.  I can usually tell, but not everytime.  So the canter work was alright today as well.

Sox got a good hosing down and I washed his face & mane.  He got a bucket of watered down gatorade too, which he loves.  He was actually good again about me washing his face.  I think we’ve figured out how to do it without setting him off.  He even gave me a few snorts while I rubbed/massaged his neck.  He had a nasty welt on his neck (probably a bug bite), but after a good washing and then some spray, it looked a lot better, but he was sensitive about me touching it.  I let him graze a good long while after and he seemed quite content by the time I put him in his stall.

I decided Lily needed some loves today, so I took her out to groom and realized that she really just needs a bath.  So, I gave her one.  She is so spooky – today she spooked twice at the wash area.  Once she dropped her butt and her back legs looked ready to just take off, and that time startled me pretty good too, but I was able to calm her down both times.  We went in so I could spray her feet and comb her mane, and she kept trying to spook in the barn too, so I quickly finished up, calmed her down and put her back in her stall.  She got a great bath though and looks SOOO much better all clean.  🙂 

Well, we are off to our friend’s pool where we are going to hang out for a few hours before heading to the baseball game.  There’s fireworks after the game tonight so that ought to be fun!

Happy 4th (again) and happy riding!!

Riding before the Storm

Tropical Storm Arthur made his presence known today, but luckily it was after my ride.  I was in the middle of grazing Sox when the sky opened up again so we hung out in the rain a bit, but it was just rain, no lightning or heavy winds.  Today was supposed to be my last lesson with my trainer before she has her baby, but she decided to work next week too, so we have one more lesson together until sometime after the little baby is born.  She wants our last lesson to be a jumping lesson, so that is something to look forward to.

Today’s lesson was GREAT.  (Last week’s lesson was pretty great too, so maybe the pattern will hold through next week!)  My canter actually felt like it is starting to come together.  I couldn’t believe it.  It’s far from perfect, but certainly getting better.  I don’t know why I am having such a hard time with this stupid gait, but I really am moving much slower in my progress in this area than I “should” be.  Of course, “shoulds” don’t really matter.  I was able to do a few smaller laps, not quite a 20 meter circle, but I circled about 1/3 the arena today, and then continued on around the whole arena.  Sox slowed down and thought about stopping a few times, but I was able to put some leg on and keep him going.  I was also able to keep him out at the rail for the most part too!  WoOt!  🙂

We did some figure 8’s over some trot poles before we finished up with the cantering.  Sox kept trying to rush over the poles, and when I rode him yesterday, he broke out in a canter half the times we went over them, so we walked on my half-halt today.  I need to learn how to steady him, how to slow him down and how to not death-grip when he doesn’t necessarily listen to me.  It went pretty well.  He definitely keeps me on my toes by pushing the boundaries in a “nice” way.  For example, when I am coming back down from a trot to a walk to reorganize myself, he will stretch his neck down low and pull the reins from me, or drop to the inside of the circle big time as soon as I am not actively doing something.  Which is totally normal behavior, but it’s more of a recent thing with me and Sox.  My trainer said that Sox is a good teacher because he seems to know when someone is really, really new and is very well behaved for them.  But as he decides that his humans know what their doing, he expects more of them and will keep testing them to make sure they are using everything they have learned.  So keep those legs on to keep Sox at the rail and don’t throw the reins away just because you need to reorganize yourself… Got it.

I know I have mentioned that Sox isn’t the most affectionate before, and that hasn’t changed or anything.  🙂  But, he has been showing me more of his style of affection.  He will rub his head on me when I get him from the paddock and when I am done riding him.  Just 1-2 rubs, and most likely because his forehead is itchy, but he doesn’t use just anyone to itch himself on, so that’s cool.  Also, he gives me little mini nickers.  Sometimes when we are walking around the property when we cool down, sometimes when I am grooming him.  Today he was giving me the nickers when I shared my gatorade with him at the wash racks.  I have to wash his forehead and mane with a special shampoo and usually it’s a fight, but today, I started out with just petting him and was able to keep him calm, and even almost happy the whole time I washed his face.  Rinsing went almost as well too.  I love taking care of him, but I hate stressing him out, and washing his face has been stressful in the past, so it was really nice to have today’s bath go so well.  After, I took him inside and dried him off really well, sprayed his hooves and doused him in fly spray.  Then we decided to brave the rain and go grazing.  Sox didn’t seem to notice that it was a little wet out.  He probably only noticed that for once, it was not 100 degrees out!

I’ve attached a picture of Sox from earlier this year.  He just keeps growing on me, I really do love this guy.



Sox from January.  The camera didn't bother him as bad this time.

Sox from January. The camera didn’t bother him as bad this time.

Shoulders BACK!!

My lesson was today and it was great.  Usually I lesson at the end of the week, but schedules worked out differently this week.  Lots of shoulder back today.  I was very slouch-y today and I knew it going into the lesson that my right side would be worse than my left side.  I even warned my trainer that my right leg and my shoulder were just feeling icky and off-balanced today.  But we worked through it.

For the last few months leading up to the beginning of my lease, I have felt that I was making hardly any improvements…not that I wasn’t actually improving, but I wasn’t having any of those A-Ha! moments.  I sort of “plateaued” for a bit there, I suppose.  Today, however, I had an A-HA! moment and it was lovely!  It was during the sitting trot!  I could feel what I was supposed to feel and was really able to flow with the horse, keeping my lower back and inner thighs soft, while keeping my lower leg ON the horse and using my outer thigh for support.  All at the same time I was also stretching up tall and keeping my shoulders back and not leaning forward….. Ahh… It was so nice and lovely for the minute or so that it lasted.  I came close to achieving it again when we circled the other way in the sitting trot, but it wasn’t the same.  I had an even shorter glimpse of it last week, a couple seconds here and there throughout the week.  I know for sure what I am supposed to feel, so even though I doubt I will achieve much of it on my own, I should recognize whether it’s correct or not by how I feel in the saddle.  It feels good when it’s right.  (duh).

My calves are finally figuring out where they are supposed to be, and my legs are mostly in the proper position, most of the time.  I am working on getting my hips more supple.  I lock them in place too often.  Today, she had me practice letting my hip open and close.  We did some regular trot and walk, and then some in two-point.  Then, she had me really exaggerate the movement by having me get into two-point and then basically lay down on Sox’s neck.  I sucked at it for the longest time, lol.  I couldn’t keep my balance and would pinch with my knees, grip with my thighs, bring my heels up, etc.  My body has a very hard time with letting go.

It was interesting because there was another girl riding in the ring today and her upper body wasn’t right either, but for a different reason.  She was pumping with her body (hips, arms, core), trying to move the horse with her body…whereas I tend to get behind the motion of the horse because I am trying to let the horse move ME but in the process of waiting for the horse to move, I don’t move either (and subsequently fall behind).  As I wait for the movement to happen, I get locked in place.  I am finally beginning to actually understand the cons of my body position – as well as how they negatively affect Sox.  My trainer told me that it was weird that I didn’t do that in my jumping (fall behind the motion).  I told her it’s because I can find my Zen in the jump – the jump itself only takes a few seconds – I can let go for short bursts of time  – so I can relax and flow – over the jump.  But maintaining that Zen, that ability to “let go” and relax and flow for extended periods of time (like during canter and trot) is just too much for my un-enlightened mind.  (lol).

We did a little canter today – nothing crazy – although I did cut the ring in half and was able to do a circle using half the arena in addition to the whole arena lap.  I have trouble making turns and doing circles in the canter – I get nervous and tense…either causing or caused by my incorrect body position (which throws everything off).  But today, it went great.  I had good transitions (besides the very first one, but I handled that one well too).  I was able to make my laps complete and transition back into a trot that didn’t have me flopping all over.

Overall, I felt good about my riding today. We had a great end to the day as well.  I gave Sox his bath and used his special shampoo on his mane and forelock.  I have figured out that if I use the hose with no nozzle, with the water flow really low, he doesn’t get quite as freaked out about the water near his face and top of his head.  Which is exactly where he needs his special shampoo…  So we had a mostly calm bath and hosing down.  He looks so clean – he’s one of the cleaner horses at the barn because I wash him every week – I can’t say that about most of the other horses.  Speaking of other horses, Lily is overdue for another bath from me.  Maybe I will introduce my sister to her Friday…  After our bath, Sox and I walked around the barn and just spent some time together while he grazed.  It was super relaxing.  Here are some pictures I took of us just hanging out.

He's happy to be grazing.  As soon as he hits the grass, he starts munching.

He’s happy to be grazing. As soon as he hits the grass, he starts munching.


Trying to get a head shot – but he won’t keep still once he sees the camera.


This is as close to a head shot as he will let me get. Look how clean his face is!! 😉


He looks so handsome. 😉


I am trying to get as much out of my trainer as possible right now since she is getting ready to have her baby ANY time now.  I have another trainer I can use, a friend of mine, while my trainer is out because of baby, but I don’t work as well with my friend as I do my trainer.  I will be having an easy day either wednesday or thursday to practice some of this stuff, plus a more serious riding day on Friday.  My sister is coming to watch me ride and play with the horses on Friday, so that will be fun. I am going to see if I can get her to record me riding so I can cringe as I watch it, lol.  Plus we are bringing one of my dogs, Leeloo, to the barn to see how she does around the horses.  I really have no idea what to expect from her regarding them, so it ought to be interesting.

Well, Happy Riding, see you next time!!